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What To Do If Your Networking is Not Working

One of the biggest challenges you face as a professional or entrepreneur is finding an effective route to market. Many successful professionals and entrepreneurs find Business Networking is an essential part of their go to market strategy. Others are frustrated with the time and money they spend without results.


If you have invested time and money networking without a good return don't despair. In this short video my NRG colleague, Martin Davies, explains how to turn things around.



Let me know if it helps.


Dave Clarke

Dave Clarke



Business Networking Blog > Posted by Dave Clarke at 17:28:44, 22 Jul 15
Tags: Business Networking,How Networking Works,networking training
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Ever Tried Networking But Without Success?

Business Networking Mind Map


Have you ever heard someone say, "I tried networking, but it did not work"?


You may even have said it yourself!


Many people are  advised to try networking when they want to find new business and that may be the root of the problem for someone who says it did not work. They try it with that idea in mind and as a result may be sending out all the wrong signals. Along with the advice to try networking they were probably told it is not about finding business directly. It is about relationships, selling through the room etc, etc. They then attend an event and get invited to pitch either to a group or to everyone who asks, "What do you do?".


For someone with no experience of networking this is all very confusing and, unintentionally, they probably sound as if they are trying to sell (however softly) and that puts people off. It is not surprising when their reaction is that the whole thing does not work. 


The best thing is to invite people to think about it differently in the first place. At NRG we believe that you need to build a network to be able to deliver what you do, to support you, and to uncover the business opportunities that suit you. If you start with that premise then the way you go about your networking will subtly change and that change will deliver results.


So the next time someone asks for some advice on networking please share these tips with them.


1. Networking is about making friends in business. Friends help and support each other.


2. The right mindset is 'We thinking' and not 'I thinking'. What can we do together?


3. Even if you are networking for business you are not selling to people directly. Your pitch need to be around how you can help each others contacts with their problems.


4. It is also about support. It can be lonely in business and it is great to have likeminded people to share the ups and downs with.


5. Your Network is your biggest asset. Take care to nurture the connections you make and the friendships you have made along the way.


6. Manage who is in your Network. You only have the capacity for a finite number of relationships. There are those you interact with all of the time. Some you just need to maintain the relationships and some you are getting to know. There will be people you do not want in your Network too.


7. Find where to meet the right people. It is really time efficient to regularly attend groups and events with the peopie in your Network and the ones you are looking to add.


8. Have a keep in touch strategy. Once you identify who is in your network then work out how best to regularly keep in touch. You may want to invest in some software to help.


9. The real value in your Network comes from buidling trust. This is your investment in Social Capital.


10. Become an Advocate for others. Freely connect other people and ideas and you will attract others who will follow your example and do the same for you and others.


Let me know how you get on.


Dave Clarke

Dave Clarke



Business Networking Blog > Posted by at 17:40:34, 22 Jan 15
Tags: Business Networking,friends in business,business support
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Why Your Pitch At Networking Events May Be Wrong

PushRecently I attended a networking event and listened to about 20 people pitch their business. The common thread was that they all pitched in exactly the same way as they would if we were prospects. The problem with that is that networking events are not full of your prospects. They are full of people like you. How do you feel when people constantly pitch at you?


The people I know who get the most out of networking focus on building a trusted network of contacts. A group of friends in business. People who provide support, advice, a sounding board when needed and introductions to other friends when they need the services of someone like you. They know that doesn't happen overnight. You have to really get to know people first which takes time so you need a strategy to keep in touch. Joining a networking group is one way of ensuring you meet people regularly to build that all important trust.


I host a couple of NRG Networking Groups and the most frequent comment I get from guests is how refreshing it is to meet a group of people who are genuinely interested in you rather than just pitching at you. This isn't accidental. It's a combination of attracting people who agree with our view of networking and then providing a facilitating environment to accelerate the trust building process by focusing on interactions that will do just that.


The next time you're at a networking event why not say to people that the reason you're there is not to find customers, but to find people who are interested in helping each other grow business in mutually supportive ways.


Let me know how you get on.


Dave Clarke

Dave Clarke



If you would like to understand more about how to invest your networking time and get a better return visit the 8 blog series on How To Win More Business Through Networking


Business Networking Blog > Posted by Dave Clarke at 16:52:37, 25 Nov 14
Tags: NRG,Business Networking,Trust,friends in business
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Flipping the marketing funnel

Last week I attended a Google for Work event, 'Reimagining fast growth'. Google were presenting research commissioned from Deloitte on how the cloud enables rapid growth in SMBs (small and medium sized businesses). Not surprisingly the research found that the fastest growing small businesses make extensive use of cloud technologies. You can find the research report at this link.


In addition to Google and Deloitte were speakers with real life experience of starting and growing businesses. Their stories brought the ideas to life.







I really liked the way that Peter Briffett, COO of Yplan, spoke about flipping the marketing funnel. In the past people looked at marketing as a funnel with lots of prospects in at the top with the aim of customers dropping out at the bottom. He said now you have to focus on each customer and deliver something good they are compelled to share.flipped funnel


As Peter said, "There is nothing more meaningful than friends talking to friends".


It's worth remembering that because it's at the heart of effective business networking.



Dave Clarke

Dave Clarke



If you would like to understand more about how to invest your networking time and get a better return visit the 8 blog series on How To Win More Business Through Networking


Business Networking Blog > Posted by Dave Clarke at 17:19:17, 29 Sep 14
Tags: Business Networking,Word of Mouth,friends in business
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Marketing Through Communities

In this guest blog Nigel Temple shares his expertise on marketing through communities. 


Marketing Through Communities 

Marketing through communities - Nigel temple

Established communities can provide you with numerous networking opportunities – if you take the right approach.


What are your objectives?

Begin by thinking about your marketing objectives. For example, is brand awareness important to you? If it is, then you may wish to consider sponsoring community events or a community website (or part thereof). This can be remarkably inexpensive.


Alternatively, are you trying to find customers ‘within the room’ or introducers (i.e. bank managers and accountants, in the case of an IFA). If so, then you will have to ‘show up’ on a regular basis.


Think about your target market segments. The communities you decide to join should either include members of these segments or people who can reach and influence them. Your choices will be guided by your business model and whether you are trying to reach business people or consumers.


Choose the right communities

Communities come in many different forms. Online examples include LinkedIn and Facebook. Locally, there are business groups such as The FSB (Federation of Small Businesses) and Chambers of Commerce. There are professional and industry groups and networking organisations such as NRG Business Networks. In addition, there are lobbying, special interest groups and local groups within towns and cities.


By the way, direct selling within communities is always seen as a bad thing. The best approach is to take your time and build relationships. Remember that community members will talk about you – so it is important to act with integrity at all times.


Social skills

Be helpful and don’t worry if your acts of kindness don’t appear to generate direct results (as you can’t hear the positive word of mouth which you are generating).


Position yourself as an expert

Once you are established within a community, look for opportunities to demonstrate your expertise. Depending on the nature of the community, these might include giving talks, writing articles and blogs and providing professional advice. Your objective is to become known as the go-to person within your field and to become a thought leader.


Multiple touch points

Once you have connected with someone within one community, connect with them elsewhere, in order to create multiple touch points. For example, look them up on LinkedIn and put in a connection request.


Networking professionals

Find the ‘professional networkers’ who can introduce you to relevant contacts. This type of person always shows up, typically has a huge number of contacts and wants to help. Phone them and / or offer to meet.


Create your own network?

Nigel TempleFinally, it may be worthwhile for you to create your own network. I have done this and it is called The Marketing Compass, a community of business owners who want to learn about marketing. We have our own social media website www.marketingcompass.co.uk where members ask marketing questions. This approach is not for the faint hearted! However, it will help you to stand out from the crowd.


Nigel Temple


Nigel is a long time supporter of NRG and is a marketing consultant, speaker and author. He is the Founder of The Marketing Compass, which provides impartial marketing advice and direction to thousands of business owners.

Business Networking Blog > Posted by Dave Clarke at 16:04:18, 02 Jul 14
Tags: Marketing,nigel temple,marketing compass,communities
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How Word of Mouth Really Spreads

Less than 3 weeks ago my daughter, Emily, started a petition on Change.Org to free Meriam Ibrahim who has been imprisoned in Sudan after being sentenced to flogging and death unless she recants her Christian faith*. She was 8 months pregnant when she was arrested and has now given birth to a baby girl who is with her in prison along with her two-year-old son.


Today that petition has more than 750,000 signatures and Emily has been interviewed on local and national radio, written about in the press and mentioned on TV in this country and others including on the other side of the world in Australia.


Once she had set up the petition she sent messages to politicians, celebrities, journalists and business leaders, but none of them replied (until the petition was much bigger!) so that wasn't the way this spread.


How, then, did she get so many people to sign?


Read on below the picture.


She shared the petition with friends and family and asked them to share and support it. Unlike the 'names' her friends and family shared it and supported it and they asked their friends and family to do the same. Guess what? They did too and after 24 hours more than 5,000 had signed. After 2 days it was over 75,000 and that increased to 225,000 on day 6. You get the picture.


She didn't stop there though. She re-shared it with new information and ideas and again asked people to do the same. Some people will have missed it first time and some may have felt more aligned with one particular message or other.


It's a great example of how Word of Mouth really spreads. It's not about celebrity endorsement or people with a huge Twitter following, it's about engaging the people who know you best and then them doing the same.


This graphic from the Change.Org website illustrates it well:


Multiply Your Impact from Change.Org


The lesson for networking is to create something compelling in your business and to engage with the people who know you best by sharing stories that demonstrate the difference you are making and can make to others like them. You need to do this consistently with the people who know you best and ask them to share that with the people they know well.


Dave Clarke

Dave Clarke


* Meriam is the daughter of a Christian woman and Muslim man. She was raised Christian after her father left. Sudanese law mandates that children born to Muslim fathers are considered Muslim so she was charged with adultery on the grounds that her marriage to a Christian man from South Sudan is considered void under Shari’a law, for which the penalty is flogging. She’s also charged with apostasy, or abandonment of religion, for which the penalty is death.


In the last few days there have been conflicting reports about Meriam being released from the Sudanese Government and her representatives so keep the pressure on and please keep signing and sharing the petition at http://j.mp/saveMYI




If you would like to understand more about how to invest your networking time and get a better return visit the 8 blog series on How To Win More Business Through Networking


Business Networking Blog > Posted by Dave Clarke at 9:53:59, 03 Jun 14
Tags: Business Networking,Word of Mouth
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Get A Better Return On Your Networking

ReturnWould you like your networking to produce a reliable and predictable return for you efforts? 


I meet many business owners and professionals who go out networking to get more business by recommendation or referral. When I ask if they would like more they generally say yes. If I ask them how they go about systematically generating more business the question gets more difficult to answer.


If you want a return you have to invest first. Networking has costs associated, but the biggest investment you make is time. The biggest problem for a lot of people is that they are spending time rather than investing time. If you attend a lot of networking events, but don't follow up and build relationships you are getting to know very little about lots of people. That isn't investing time.


In NRG Business Networks I receive referrals from people that I meet regularly and have built relationships with. In addition to that I also have a number of referral partnerships where we regularly meet to swap referrals with each other. This didn't happen accidentally, it was a result of investing my time and doing the right things with the right people. It's an approach I have used in all of my past and current businesses. I had a clear idea of my target market and worked out who else operated in that market. I then set about investing time and attention in developing relationships with those people through relevant networking groups, one to one interactions and giving help and support. Over time we recommended each other more often and now do this in a structured way. 


If you would like to understand more about how to invest your networking time and get a better return visit this link to my 8 blog series on How To Win More Business Through Networking


Dave Clarke

Dave Clarke


Business Networking Blog > Posted by Dave Clarke at 17:13:19, 04 Mar 14
Tags: Business Networking,Referrals,Networking Groups,Advocacy
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Are You Asking Yourself The Right Question?

Question MarkWhen considering a networking group people often ask themselves, "Is the group right for me?" and "Will the group work for me ?"


My experience is that if a group is well led and made up of the right people then you will be effective if you do the right things and don't wait for things to happen. You need to have the wherewithal to do what is necessary to make the others in the group like, trust, and rate you enough to look out for opportunities to refer and help you.*


So you need to flip the question around and ask yourself,


"Am I right for the group and will I commit to do what is necessary to make it work?"


Good Networking!


*For more on what you need to do to make your networking effective read How To Win More Business Through Networking.


Dave Clarke

Dave Clarke


Business Networking Blog > Posted by Dave Clarke at 15:51:23, 31 Jan 14
Tags: Business Networking,Networking Groups,Advocacy
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Do people you know confuse networking & selling?

stopDo you ever meet people at networking events who are only interested in what they do and if you may be interested in buying from them? I know I do, but many of them just haven’t learned that networking and selling are different activities. Others will have been told that networking events are just sales opportunities.


For many people in business the idea of selling is scary or frightening. Some view the very idea of being thought of as a salesperson as something that is tacky or beneath them. These are real problems for many business owners because if you don't sell you don't have a business. This can lead people to approach networking in entirely the wrong way and act as if it as a quick solution to their selling woes. Instead of taking the time to build a network they treat everyone they meet as a potential prospect and put them off immediately. They may well end up believing networking doesn't work and outsource their selling (potentially wasting even more time and effort). 


You can’t blame these people for behaving this way when no one has explained the best approach and they see some very confusing messages about networking. Some organisers of 'networking' events encourage people to see it as selling by advertising their events as your opportunity to network with 'decision makers' or to 'find your next client'. It doesn't help either when every available break at a conference, exhibition or other jamboree is called a networking opportunity.


The people who are effective at networking and selling treat them as different activities.


Networking is for the longer term and can lead to many more sales opportunities than if you treat everyone as a potential customer. It is an ongoing activity where you build a network of trusted relationships for support, information and business. A network of friends in business who look out for each other and who help each other succeed. Different people or groups of people will fulfil different functions in your network and you will do the same for them. The people who give you the best ideas or market intelligence may not be the ones who refer you to your target market. The ones who refer you are extremely valuable for your sales process and will have trusted relationships with your target market. They are likely to be providers to or clients of your target market.


Selling is interacting directly with your target market in order to sell them your services. Not to be confused with networking, but essential to the success of your business. Some of your prospecting is actually part of your sales process and not networking at all. Selling is the bit that happens after you have identified a prospect directly or have been introduced or referred by someone in your network. If someone in your network declares an interest in buying your stuff then that's an unexpected bonus.


Don’t be surprised that if you approach networking as a kind of 'soft' selling you will most likely be adding to your business development problems rather than solving them.


Until next time ...


Good Networking!

Dave Clarke

Dave Clarke


Business Networking Blog > Posted by Dave Clarke at 13:38:59, 03 Dec 13
Tags: Business Networking,Selling,How Networking Works,Networking Relationships
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Is Your Networking a Series of Random Acts of Hope

Marcus Cauchi


In this guest blog, Marcus Cauchi, writes about how he has learned to network effectively. Marcus is the leader of the Reading NRG Group and you can see him in action there on the third Tuesday each month.


Is Your Networking a Series of Random Acts of Hope?


Do you have a plan of action when you go to a networking event?

Do you know what you want to achieve and who you want to meet?

Do you attend networks and do little or nothing to engage with other attendees or members between meetings?

Do you spend a fortune on breakfasts, lunches and dinners, G&Ts, coffees and beer but have little or no business to show for it?




Because you are probably behaving more like a butterfly than a bee. You flit from one unsatisfying social engagement to another without any purpose or direction, you don't engage, you may be trying to sell to a room of needy, desparate and skint people without ever listening or asking the right questions. And chances are you are doing structured 121's with the people who attended to explore if you could become regular referral partners.


Referral Partnerships

Do you have a handful of referral partners who you meet on a regular basis to exchange contacts, set up appointments for one another, support one another with intelligence, hold each other accountable or act as part of their business support network?


Probably not. Few people do. I know I didn't for the first few years and as a result I ran around like a headless chicken and my wife Suzanne became a networking widow. 30 networking events a month, credit cards up to the hilt paying for memberships, event fees, bar bills and lunches nad very little to show for it.


Then I got smarter.


Who to Partner With

Now I actively seek out people who I like and trust, or have been referred to me by trusted sources, and aim to establish a strong personal relationship first. I look for people who sell to the same audience or target market that I do but we don't compete directly. For my sales & sales management training and coaching business, complementary disciplines include banks, accountants, marketing consultancies, outsourced sales/sales management/lead generation companies, CRM vendors, recruiters who are local to me. If you are one of these or know someone who operates in the Reading/Thames Valley/South East of England area I'd love to hear from you/them as I've just  oved my business and I'm currently looking for another 2 referral partners to work with.


The Process

The process I go through involves gaining a mutual understanding of each other as humanbeings first. Then we establish a strong understanding of each other's business, our respective target markets and we teach each other how to identify, qualify and do each other's 30-second commercial to our mutual satisfaction, so we are making introductions and setting up introductions properly and without ambiguity or errors.


We meet regularly. Every 6-8 weeks. We identify what we are each looking for and then produce a long list of people in our contact base who might fit the bill. This list might be 20 or 30 people long. Then we go through the list and refine it until we have a shortlist of 10-15 who we each call from our own contact base. We make the introductions there and then and attenpt to book time in our contacts' diaries for our referral partner to meet.


We establish a clear up front agreement about the what our contact can expect form the meeting and give them permission at any point to end it or to say "no" and as partners we understand our job is to protect the relationship of the person referring us so we cna rest easy, knowing that we won't be suffering from referral remorse (when you make a referral and regret having made it).



We commit to keeping each other up dated as to progress on each of the referrals. We let the other person know how they went, what went right or wrong. And we keep refining our understanding over time so we get better at referring.


Once you have momentum and have built that trust and experience up, a referral partnership meeting can easily generate between 7-10 qualified, warm, personal introductions to decision makers in our respective target markets per meeting.


If you have 4-8 of these referral partnerships going live and you meet every 6-8 weeks you can easily have between 40-200 meetings booked into your diary each year. If you do the maths it can get as high as 693 introductions per year (yes I did say six hundred and ninety three) with 8 referral partners if you're meeting every 6 weeks with 10 meetings booked per engagement. That is more than enough for you NEVER to have to cold call again isn't it?


Take Action

So why wouldn't do this for your business? Masochism, apathy or sloth ar ethe only legitimate reasons for not doing it.


Make the decision to get your act together. If you'd like to learn how to do this effectively, you can contact me if you're in the South East, ideally with easy access to Reading where my office is based, or speak to the Referral Insititute for their methodology which is pretty robust too. 


Next Steps

I'd be delighted to explore becoming your referral partner if you sell to SMEs and corporates, preferably in the the technology, media and professional services sectors, if you're based in or near Reading, Basingstoke, Maidenhead, Camberley, Bracknell, Wokingham, Windsor or other towns nearby.


And if you happen to know anyone who is frustrated that their networking isn't working, they struggle to fill their sales pipeline or their pipeline is weak and inconsistent, they have to sell to survive or they have a sales team that is complaining they haven't got enough leads consistently, their marketing isn't delivering the prospects they need to hit their targets, do please pass on my details (07515 937221 or mcauchi@sandler.com). better still, call me and we can discuss the person you plan to refer me to, we can establish the groundrules by which I will operate to protect your relationships and I will educate you in my process by way of a thank you. Is that fair?


Happy selling!



Business Networking Blog > Posted by Dave Clarke at 18:00:23, 19 Nov 13
Tags: networking,effective networking,systematic networking,networking works,my networking isn't working,networking is a waste of time,
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